The guy I had plans with for tonight texted me at 3:11pm.  3:11pm.  We were supposed to meet for drinks at 7 (at an undecided location).  And this was supposed to be our first date (we made these plans last Wednesday and I hadn’t heard from him since).  He asked if tonight was still good [...]

First let me admit than I’m a bit tipsy (I’m writing this Friday night, after my date, but setting it to post Saturday morning.  I do that a lot.  Write things the day before or days before.  It helps me with the whole posting every day thing.  There, now you know one of my secrets.).  [...]

As I’ve mentioned many times before, this whole blog thing really is new to me.  I started the blog back in August (of 07 08, so that would make it 8 months ago). Prior to that I hadn’t really read many blogs.  At least not regularly.  And the ones I did read were the big [...]

Dating in NYC is different than dating other places.  It just is.  It’s not better or worse.  It’s just different. I haven’t dated anyone who knew any of my exes in over 15 years.  And that wasn’t here in the city.  I was living in the UK then.  If I lived somewhere else, most other places, the [...]

I’m thinking of meeting with a matchmaker.  I’ve been thinking about it for a while.  Not actively.  It’s just been one of those random ideas that occasionally pops up in my mind, like, “you should eat more blueberries”. Let’s face it, I’m not getting any younger.  I’m not going to tell you the exact date [...]