So this post is both the second part of Not a Happy Mother’s Day Post and my regular Monday, Best Date Spot post.  Let’s see if I can pull this off. We hadn’t talked much about the trip, in advance.  I’d never been out to the North Fork before, had no idea where we were [...]

I’m not a mother. My mother’s gone and so are my grandmothers, and while I have plenty of aunts, I’m not really close to any of them.  So I’m not feeling the Mother’s Day love, sorry.  Plus, I’ve always put Mother’s Day in that category of greeting card holidays that only exist so that people [...]

Some of you know some of this already.  I haven’t tried to hide it.  But I didn’t want anyone making any false assumptions about me or my motives. I have a new job or two.  Well, kind of, in the way that people out here in the blogosphere/twitterverse sometimes get paid to write for other [...]

I’ve frequently been told, by guys, that guys are simple.  That women over-complicate things and if we could just remember that guys are simple, that they say what they want and mean what they say (and all that crap) then the world of dating and relationships would all be a lot easier. And I’ve repeated [...]

Let me start by saying I’m an equal opportunity dater.  I’ve dated guys of different races and many different ethnic backgrounds.  You can all see of my body up top there on my blog header and so you know I’m a white girl, but don’t assume that every guy I date is white. They’re not. [...]