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Dating Mind Meld

The other day I got an email from one of my favorite people, a really great guy friend (the one who’s an ex).  He was bummed.   The latest woman in his life turned out to be a total non-starter.  They’d had one date and plans for the second one and then everything fell to shit. […]

I’d Shag You, But I Wouldn’t

I have a split social life.  Sometimes, rarely, I tell random strangers that I’m a blogger and the name of my blog and all of that stuff.  I usually don’t.  Usually I keep it to myself. But if I’m out and about with other people from the blogging community then I’ll let the cat out […]
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The Phone Rang

My phone has been acting weird for a while.  Freezing and stalling and yesterday it seemed to go completely bonkers (I should be more specific – my iphone.  I’m going to head over to the Apple store sometime tonight to see if they can figure out what’s wrong with it.)  I was wrestling with it […]
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Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda(?)

It might be hard for people who don’t live here to imagine this, but New Yorkers bump into people they know all of the time.  Sure, it’s a BIG city.  But it’s also just a collection of neighborhoods. This morning, as I was out fetching milk (for my coffee), I bumped into a guy I […]

"Single" Can Mean a Lot of Things

So yeah, I’m single and I date a lot.  Big whoop. Girls like me are a dime a dozen.  Guys, too. What I find more fascinating are people who don’t date. And I don’t mean fascinating in a judgmental way.  I mean honest to goodness – fascinating. The non-daters I’m thinking of seem to fall […]