So, I was just catching up on my casual reading and, lo and behold, there’s another celebrity sex tape scandal.  Shocking.  No, I’m not going to put a link to that.  There are actually some things I think that are beneath me. Anyway, I just thought I’d add my two cents.  On the short list [...]

So this weekend is the one year anniversary of this blog.  Not at this site.  I started over at blogspot and migrated over here – to OnSugar with my own url a few months later.  But I started the site exactly one year ago this weekend. Technically tomorrow.  But tomorrow is Sunday and Sunday is [...]

Yesterday’s post by Single Black Male hit close to home for me. It’s title is, Why You Don’t Have a Man #4729: He Just Doesn’t Want A Relationship. I will admit that in my younger day I was one of those women who thought I could change a man. That if a guy liked me [...]

First off, all three of the men I’m about to write about read this blog, at least occasionally (well, I am 100% certain that 2 of them know about it and fairly sure about the 3rd). Dear Men in Question:  I’m not asking for any of you to chime in here with your reasons or [...]

The other day I got an email from one of my favorite people, a really great guy friend (the one who’s an ex).  He was bummed.   The latest woman in his life turned out to be a total non-starter.  They’d had one date and plans for the second one and then everything fell to shit. [...]