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Archive for the ‘Because, that’s why’

OK With Being Number 2 (Get your minds out of the gutter)

I was listening, recently, to a story of a married couple that seems to have everything.  Health, wealth, kids – the whole nine yards.  And they’re even pretty damn happy.  The only little issue mucking up their perfect world is that the husband works a lot.  And, in truth, his career will always come first. […]

Saturdays Off?

Observant readers might have noticed I’ve taken the last couple of Saturdays off.  This is not a new tradition for me. At least, that’s not the plan. Truth is, I hurt my hand a few weeks ago.  My right hand (and yeah, I’m right handed).  I’m still waiting for the doctors appt I made the […]

“If he were a social worker he could still be an asshole…”

I was catching up with an old friend the other day.  She and I go way back to a job we had in the mid 90s, and have stayed in touch (and also worked together, again) since then. I was telling her about my upcoming 3rd date with Mr. Midwest (tonight) and that he was […]

Cheater, Cheater

One week 183 Total Votes No, 53% Yes, 47% This means that in all probability, approximately half the people reading this have cheated. Sure, the Nos win out with a slight majority. But only ever so slight. Looks like we had an awful lot of cheaters drop by in the last week (in case you’re curious, […]

Speaking of Men Who Can’t Get it Up

There was no delicate way to start this post, so I figured I’d dive right in.  Last week YourTango posted Male Take: When He Can’t Get An Erection (smart post, you should read it if you haven’t already) and it jogged my memory about a post I meant to write ages ago. Two little stories, […]