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Archive for the ‘Because, that’s why’

Saturdays Off?

Observant readers might have noticed I’ve taken the last couple of Saturdays off.  This is not a new tradition for me. At least, that’s not the plan. Truth is, I hurt my hand a few weeks ago.  My right hand (and yeah, I’m right handed).  I’m still waiting for the doctors appt I made the [...]

“If he were a social worker he could still be an asshole…”

I was catching up with an old friend the other day.  She and I go way back to a job we had in the mid 90s, and have stayed in touch (and also worked together, again) since then. I was telling her about my upcoming 3rd date with Mr. Midwest (tonight) and that he was [...]

Cheater, Cheater

One week 183 Total Votes No, 53% Yes, 47% This means that in all probability, approximately half the people reading this have cheated. Sure, the Nos win out with a slight majority. But only ever so slight. Looks like we had an awful lot of cheaters drop by in the last week (in case you’re curious, [...]

Speaking of Men Who Can’t Get it Up

There was no delicate way to start this post, so I figured I’d dive right in.  Last week YourTango posted Male Take: When He Can’t Get An Erection (smart post, you should read it if you haven’t already) and it jogged my memory about a post I meant to write ages ago. Two little stories, [...]

Not According to Plan

I’ve been off-line for most of the last few days.  Health stuff, sorta. Anyways, I also had to miss 2 friend’s parties (which I was very sad about) and cancel my 2nd date with Mr. Midwest (our 3rd date went well and he asked me out again as we kissed outside my building at the [...]