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More Than Just Poor Planning

I was at a friend’s party, and at one point in the evening I found myself sitting with a bunch of other women. Most of us had met before, but none of us knew each other well. Somehow, I have no idea how (I was chatting with someone about something else) the conversation got down […]

“He’s not going to buy the cow if he can get the milk for free.”

I’ve been working on this post for the last few days.  Or rather, I’ve taken several stabs at it. I keep writing posts full of passion and conviction. None of which really belong here. The thing is, I have a stake in this fight.  But I try (TRY) to keep my temper in check and […]

Vive la Difference. But are we really that different?

I’m trying to get better about using Facebook. I know that there are many (strange) people who actually prefer it to twitter, or who don’t (gasp) use twitter. For those of you who don’t know, I’m a twitterholic. I came late to FB. In fact, I started to use it about a year after I […]

Speaking of Texts… I don’t sext, I don’t flirt text and don’t get me started on booty texts

Wow, I loved the comments from yesterday’s post. Sorry I haven’t had the chance to reply.  Can I blame the rain? I know that some people really like texting as a form of communication.  And hey, I get it.  It’s super-convenient. I just don’t think it’s the most effective means of communicating between two people […]

Probably Not the Smartest Thing to Include in a Text (to a Girl)

It’s a rainy Monday morning, hence the perfect time to kvetch. I’ve written (many times) before about how much I hate dating by text. Most recently here. If a guy isn’t into long chats on the phone, that’s cool with me because neither am I. In fact, it’s kind of an issue when a guy […]