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Variety is the Spice of Life

I’ve rarely been accused of being shy. But I am a Gemini. So while there’s a part of me that thrives in social situations, there’s another part of me that likes to just stay home and read. And lately, I gotta admit, the quiet side of me has been pretty much in control. I’ve turned […]


Every once in a while people will ask me how long I’ve been doing this blog thing and I have to stop and think. Hell, it’s been a while now. Since the summer of ’08. But sometimes it feels like I just started a couple of months ago. So, here’s a little flashback, for the […]

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” -Anais Nin Just in case you’re new around here – a couple of factoids: *  A few years ago, I walked away from a stable, relatively successful career. I didn’t have a concrete plan for what I’d do next. I just had some vague idea that […]
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Another Week…

I wasn’t around much last week. Not online and not IRL. I was down in Miami for a conference for the second half of the week and that kept me super-busy. So, needless to say, I’m days behind on comments (and lots of other things). Sorry about that. I want to draw your attention to a […]

And so we’ll see

Very short post this morning. A catch you up on dating stuff post. So, remember last weekend when I cried on that date? Days passed and I didn’t hear anything from that guy. So I kinda figured good riddance and was happy to move beyond whatever weird emotion he sparked in me (I was thinking […]