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Archive for the ‘Because, that’s why’

One Person’s Issues…

I wasn’t going to post today. Honestly, my brain isn’t working. I’m working on it. Me, my doctor and my pharmacist. But I had a quick thought. A colleague called this morning with a work thing. I’m still working. That’s the thing about being a freelancer. No paid sick days. So I work around the […]

Stand by Your Sociopath

So it’s been a while. This is the longest I’ve gone without posting in… I don’t know. Maybe since I started the blog. I don’t want to get into it. I’m here now and I’ll do the best I can to be coherent. No promises. Last week there was a post in DoubleX called, Sociopaths […]

The Ick Factor in Dating

First things first – I’m using the phrase ick factor because that’s the phrase that came to mind when I sat down to write. I’m not subtly referencing a SATC episode or a dumbass political comment. Those things just happen to come up with you google ick factor. So… the other day I got a text […]

The #InsomniaClub Strikes Again

I have good news and bad news.  The good news is that today is the wonderful day of the month when the writers of the Insomnia Club get together and do their thing. The bad news is that I’ve been under the weather for the past few days and am completely incapable of stringing together […]

What a Mess

Allow me to start today’s post with an embarrassing admission – as a person who’s been living alone for years, without a dishwasher, I sometimes leave dirty dishes in my sink overnight. Sometimes for more than one night. OK, frequently for more than a night. I know, gross. I scrape off the food and rinse […]