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Fluffer?

I got some disturbing news a couple of weeks ago.  Yet another one of the men from my not too distant past, a guy who “really, really liked me” but wasn’t looking for a commitment, is now in a committed relationship.  I now know of 3 who fall into this category from the last 4 […]
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Hints of Hope

So this morning as I sat down to read the NYTimes I was struck by the headline, Hints of Hope Even as Jobless Rate Jumps to 9.4%. No, this post isn’t about the economy (I don’t want to get depressed).  It’s about hope and perspective. There are people/economists/politicians who look at our current economy and […]
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Wow, This Really Sucks

This isn’t what I was planning on posting today. In fact, I have most of another post written.  A fun, flirty, kind of naughty post about sex and fuckbuddies and all kinds of things that make me blush a little. But I had to put that away. I’ve known for a while that I’d need […]

In The End

So the European sent me that kinda of bizarre text on Sunday morning that I interpreted as, “don’t call me, I’ll call you”.  And then I didn’t hear from him again for a couple of days.  It was making me anxious because I really don’t like uncertainty. Truth is that I’m a bit of a […]
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Loneliness Bites

Thank you so much to everyone for your thoughtful and supportive comments regarding my “Blog Policy” post, here, on Twitter and via direct messaging.  I appreciate them.  I also appreciate the messages of the WTF? variety.  I know that I included a lot of info in that last post.  It was long, and could have […]
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