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The Other Women

Several times, in the last few weeks, I’ve been asked if I’ve ever dated a married man/if I’d be willing to write about that topic.  It’s something I’ve shied away from in the past because I didn’t want to cause a stir or offend anyone (seriously).  But since I’ve been repeatedly asked, here goes: I […]

Innocent Bystanders

I know I’ve said this many times before, but I really love Twitter.  Yesterday I had breakfast with one of my newer Twitter friends, PassionMD, who is seriously one of the sweetest men in NYC. We had a great chat about a dozen different things and, of course, one of them was dating and relationships.  […]
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What’s In Your Mirror?

Last night I was out drinking with a couple of my very smart friends.  We were talking about dating and relationships (really, I do talk about other things, sometimes). and @iamalejandra said (to someone else, not me), “Let me ask, who do you see when you look in your mirror?  I think that every time […]
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And Then I Did It

Last week was so intense, full of so much drama. I couldn’t imagine, while I was in the thick of it, how it was going to turn out. And then on Saturday morning I had a chat with another one of my good guy friends.  Someone older and wiser.  The person who said, after things […]
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A couple of things: I haven’t bothered to delete the nasty comments from the last two posts, even though they clearly cross the line.  I also have no intention to correct the many factual errors made.  Here’s what I will do, point out for the nth time that I can’t imagine how sad, pathetic and […]
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