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The Sunday Boy

So I’ve been seeing someone. But there’s absolutely no chance of this turning into a serious thing. None. I’m not sad about. I’m not sure I have any specific feelings about it. It’s just a Sunday thing.  He’s my Sunday Boy.  Note: Ever since I started to think of him this way, I cannot get […]

Thoughts for the Week

Somehow, I managed to learn a few things this week.  Well, learn might be too strong a word.  But I’ve thought about stuff, stuff has happened, and I feel good about it. 1) I never did hear from Mr. 3 Dates and it’s pretty certain at this point I never will. Oh well. I guess […]

Is it too early to be disappointed?

It’s not particularly late on Tuesday morning and I still haven’t heard from the potential new man in my life/aka Mr. 3 Dates. We ended our date on Sunday night with a rather chaste kiss on my corner (he hasn’t yet made an effort to really kiss me, even though he’s said some rather grand […]

When Independence Sucks

The last couple of weeks have been hard for me.  Physically.  I haven’t been feeling well and when that happens, well everything else falls apart. My apartment looks like a bomb hit it.  And my life feels completely upside down. So many things that I should have done, need to do, want to do. But […]

Back to Those Feelings

It hit me this morning, as I was frantically rushing through some work and personal/family stuff so that I could go visit a sick friend later in the day -> I’m not dead inside. Sometimes, when I’m dating (maybe most of the time) I wonder if maybe there’s something wrong with my heart. I date […]