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Money, Money, Money + an Update or Two

I’m front-loading this post with apologies galore.  I’m totally ignoring my editorial calendar again. I’m just not in the mood for a list post.  I promise to return to regularly scheduled programming sometime soon. Now, before I get to the topic at hand, I wanted to give you all a couple of updates on my […]
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7 Ways to Let a Guy Down Easy

He likes you*.  Really, really likes you.  You can’t ignore it any longer. Lucky you. He’s such a nice guy, he is.  He’s just not, um, attractive. And this isn’t a case of all nice guys being unattractive (that’s so another post). No. It’s him.  He’s unattractive.  And oh, so, unsexy. At first you thought […]

7 Things I Think Are More Important Than Game

Earlier this week I was having a conversation with a couple of my female friends about guys and game.  The gist of the conversation was this – if a guy really has no confidence/can’t talk to girls AT ALL and he feels that, for whatever reason, spending lots of money on one of those “skills […]

One for the Guys

Ok guys, don’t say I never did anything for you. If you follow the instructions I’m going to give you today, you will be guarenteed better dates in the future.  Probably.  Unless you don’t need this advice.  In which case, attaboy. Are you a man who is actively dating, or single and thinking that he’d […]
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5 Things A Guy Shouldn’t Put in His Online Profile (Taken from Real Personal Ads )

I’ve been saving these up, collecting them, over time.  Each was taken, verbatim from some guy’s profile (no, I’m not going to say which service).  I chose these specific statements because they represent classic errors that I see all the time.  And yeah, I know women make lots of errors in their profiles too, but […]