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Top 7 First Date Ideas, Encore Edition

It’s funny how, now that I have this blog, just about every conversation can be turned into a conversation about dating.  I’d just helped a friend move into a new apartment and we were sitting and talking about a great bakery/coffee place just a couple of blocks from his new place.  As an addendum to […]

You Can Live Without Me

Fun fact: I’ve dated, not one, but two men with active stalkers. Now, before I get too deeply into this, let me give my standard aside/backpedal.  There are hundreds, probably thousands of perfectly normal, decent people with stalkers.  Stalkers are emotionally imbalanced people.  People with stalkers are victims. That said, I’ve come to believe that […]
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Best Dating Advice Ever…

With an opening like that, how could I not read the article?  Turns out the post, Best Dating Advice Ever From Michelle Obama, in YourTango was a really great one and I did think her advice was pretty damn awesome: “Cute’s good. But cute only lasts for so long, and then it’s, Who are you […]

Red Light, Green Light – 7 Signs that Say a Woman IS Looking to Hook Up

A couple of weeks ago, before I got this stupid flu thing, I was out drinking with some friends.  One of them was a straight guy friend who is completely clueless about women and dating, which I think is kind of charming, in a weird way.  But I’m strange. I digress, we were just hanging […]
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Do You Want To Go Out With Me?

Today is my site’s turn to get more involved with the Blog Crawl.  There’s been a slight change of plans, as our guest author is Keysha Whitaker, instead of Terry Hernon MacDonald as originally scheduled. “Do you want to go out with me? The other day, as I walked towards the main doorway to my […]
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