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How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 4

Not long after that first date, I made plans to meet another guy from nerve for coffee. Unlike my “regular” dates with men I meet online, I made it a practice of always meeting guys who were interested in NSA for coffee/during the day. I didn’t think they were more dangerous, or anything like that. […]

How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 3

So I knew I wanted to find a fuckbuddy. But I didn’t know where I should look. I’d seen plenty of ads for Adult Friend Finder (no link, because it’s NSFW) and so I figured I’d give it a try. I lasted about a week. First off, a pretty high percentage of the guys posted […]
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How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 2

To be completely honest, it took a while before I turned to the internet.  Even though I’d been using online dating sites for years, the thought of using an online dating site to find a fuckbuddy kinda freaked me out at first.  It seemed, IDK, just a little bit scary. So before I went shopping […]

How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 1

So, one of yesterday’s funnier comments started with this, “The cherry on this delusional, self-important sundae is how you think meeting a guy online interested in no strings sex is an accomplishment.” Actually, I do.  As I might have mentioned, I’ve had the same fuckbuddy for years.  We have pretty awesome sex, every time.  Get […]

Advice Worth Taking

I first read yesterday’s Guy’s Story when it was published on Jackie Summer’s blog, F*cking in Brooklyn.  I’ve been pondering ‘Mama’s Best Advice” ever since. I’d say that, if I had to be honest, the 2 times I’ve been in love, I loved the guy more than he loved me.   It wasn’t something I realized […]
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