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Archive for the ‘Smart stuff, aka “advice”’

Coming Soon…

So I had this great idea for a new feature, Advice from People I’d Take Advice From. Yeah, the name sucks.  I’m working on it.  But I think it’s a great idea.  You see, for whatever reason, I actually have people who email me and ask my advice. On actual dating and relationship stuff. Which […]

Blast from the Past: 7 Things A Guy Needs to Know About Picking An Online Dating Profile Picture

It’s the Friday before the Labor Day Weekend and it seems like half the US has started their long weekends early.  Not me. I’m working today. Sort of. Today’s (rerun) post came to mind as I clicked on a totally hysterical email from one of the online services (who shall remain nameless, under the ‘if […]

Important Things I’ve Learned from One Night Stands

I can still remember the conversation.  I’d met a friend for happy hour at the Boathouse in Central Park.  Not a usual hang out, but it was the first really warm day of summer and we wanted to be outside and enjoy the park. It had been weeks since we’d spoken and the first thing […]

Damned If I Know

I think of myself as, primarily, a storyteller. Every once and a while I’ll share a how-to  (which usually is more of a “how I did it” than an actual how-to) but one thing I never do is solicit questions from lovelorn readers. Sometimes, though, readers come to me with their questions. And they know […]

The Best Question

I was out the other night with a friend and for the most part we were talking about work stuff. I’ve hit a bit of a crossroads with my work and she was gracious enough to offer to listen to me talk about it for a while. I’m one of those people who likes to […]
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