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Breaking My Rules

I have a date tonight. A first date with a man I met online. And we’re going out to dinner. Now, anyone who’s been reading this blog for a while will know that this is something I NEVER do (notice the caps, bold and underline). I’m a let’s-meet-for-drinks gal. Or maybe coffee. Or a walk […]

One, Two, Three Dates – a quick update

As it stands now, I have 3 dates scheduled this week (none of which are with this guy, btw). I think that may be too much/too many, but these are all men I’ve been communicating with for a while. For weeks (I was out of town for weeks and “met” these guys online right before […]

3 Months

It’s been a little more than 3 months since I started to use Match and Chemistry (and stopped using OkCupid and nerve.com).  The time flew by, and to be honest, I haven’t made the most of my memberships.  I could have/should have spent more time working at it. Especially Chemistry, which really encourages members to […]

You Winked?

I’m back in the game again.  Well, not completely.  I dipped a toe in last week, taking the time to sort through my inbox and do a quick search to see if anyone interesting popped up. And sure enough, amongst the messages (many of which were the typical, “you’re cute” which I usually just ignore) […]

And He Lost Me

It seems that, a few weeks ago, I’d given my phone number to a couple of men.  This was back when I was still kinda seeing Mr. Midwest and trying to figure out where that was going. Anyway, these two guys both started calling me in the past week.  Each with his own apologies and […]