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Dating in the Slow Lane

So last night was my third date with necking guy. For those of you who are just reading this blog for the first time, here’s the quick info on necking guy – good first date: fun, smart, interesting, cute (in a white bread kind of way that I don’t usually go for, but I’m trying […]
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No, this isn’t about my date with necking guy last night. I WILL write about that later. Honestly, I’m still figuring out what I think and feel about him. He’s an odd one, alright. In the meantime… I was just just checking my online personals account. I’m lucky enough to work in one of those […]
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Am I Looking for Dealbreakers?

So I was on a date late night, another first date.  Cute in a unassuming way, charming, a little geekly, a little edgy – all good things.  He’s 45 and has a grown up job that he seems to enjoy but that doesn’t define him.  We were having fun talking about silly things and the […]
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Premature Booty Call

So last night I was lying in bed, reading.  I’m not ashamed to say I was home reading on a Saturday night.  Sometimes I need a break from dating, especially when I’ve been doing a lot of it lately and it doesn’t seem to be getting me anywhere.  Anyway, I was home reading when my […]


So here’s the deal – necking guy tells me in an email that he wasn’t sure I was into him, was having trouble reading me, and so while he wanted to invite me back to his place for pie (really, he’d made some pie from scratch the day before) he didn’t know how I’d react. […]
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