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Back in the Saddle (loosely speaking)

Just walked in from a perfectly pleasant date (no snark in that comment, btw). I am reasonably certain that there’ll be a second one. He’s exactly the guy I was looking for 15 years ago. Physically and in a lot of other ways too. In fact, he reminds me a lot of some of the […]
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Circling Back Around

I’m finally back in town, completely (physically and mentally, 7 days a week). It seems like it’s been forever. I’ve started to reschedule some of those dates I had to scratch, though not all of them. The time away has made me rethink some of the guys. They don’t all seem as appealing as they […]
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Brief Update on The Writer

Thanks for your advice, btw. I took it and sent him an email last night, saying how nice it was to speak with him earlier in the week (I didn’t say it was a good conversation). He wrote back immediately and said he enjoyed speaking with me, too, and some other nice things. I expect […]
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So last night I got a call from this guy I’ve been flirting with via email. We first met online a few weeks ago and I have to admit that, despite myself, I was developing a little crush on him. He’s not the most attractive man I’ve met this year (or even this month) and […]
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Forgettable? Me?

For the second time in as many years, I’ve received an introductory message from a man I’ve already gone out with.  That’s right, these are men I met online, exchanged several messages with, and then went out on a date with. Neither date was fabulous, neither was remarkably bad. Just your typical, waste of time, […]
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