I can’t imagine living somewhere that didn’t have seasons. I love it when the leaves change colors. I love the cool spring nights. I love the snow. I even love the sticky New York summers, when I need to hang out by the river to stay cool. But I do hate how cold the mornings [...]

Just got in from my date. I wish I could say I wasn’t disappointed (I should know better than to have hopes..)but I am. The guy’s got a lot of good qualities but he’s not ready, yet. There were red flags going up all over the place, stuff I guess I could’ve learned if I [...]

So I’m tired of this whole thing already. Really tired. I don’t watch much television and didn’t even know there was such a thing as a person calling themselves a ‘pick up artist‘ until I joined the blogosphere. At first I thought it was all hysterical, then sad, then hysterical again. Now I’m just bored [...]

I promise to write more later about all of this. The bad dater has earned a new nickname. He is now Mr. Potential. He gave me a really sweet kiss at my stoop (that’s what we call the steps to our buildings here in the Big Apple) as we said goodnight on Sunday. He then [...]

One of the good things about getting older, I’m finding, is that I’m learning more about myself. Sitting here at 38 I can honestly say I have a pretty good idea of what my strengths and weaknesses are, and what I need to work on. That goes for all kinds of things:  dating, work, family [...]