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Weekend Update

I’m so sorry I’ve gone so long without posting, especially as I have so much to write about.  I had a great first date on Friday night.  And I really want to update the Ex Files.  Plus, there are some great comments I’d like to reply to, but honestly I’m just not that functional right […]
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If At First You Don’t Succeed

I really enjoyed Seth’s recent post over at The Dating Papers, “How To Get Over Your Ex”.  And I completely agree with him.  As I’ve commented on before, I am not a fan of wallowing, or making sad desperate calls to exes when you’re feeling low. That said.  I’d also like to add, this is […]
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Making God Laugh

What’s that old joke – How do you make God laugh? Make a plan. Well, as of yesterday morning I had plans to have a total of 5 dates this week.  The first was Sunday night.  Then I was supposed to have one last night (Wednesday).  One today.  One tomorrow night.  And one Saturday night […]
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Second Thoughts (and 3rd thoughts)

I’m supposed to have first date tonight with the guy I had to cancel on last week because I was sick.  I was really excited about going out with him.  That’s pretty unusual as I try to keep my excitement to a minimum prior to first dates.  Hopeful-yes, excited-no. I figure it’s better to be […]
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5 Date Week

It looks like this might turn out to be a 5 date week, after all.  It’s not what I’d planned. I planned on it being a pretty mellow, 3 date week (all first dates).  But then today The Musician called and asked me for that 2nd date.  We’re playing phone tag right now, but I […]
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