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Two Out of Three

I had three dates on the schedule for this weekend: my second date Friday night with The Musician and then 2 first dates on Saturday. The second date with The Musician went very well.  We were supposed to have dinner at a place not too far from where I live.  It was his choice.  I’d […]
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Thought Some More About It/Probably Thinking Too Much

I thought some more about my two unsuccessful dates earlier this week. Here’s what I came up with: The first date that I had on Tuesday night with the guy I should have liked (super-smart and gorgeous), well, I had really good reasons for not liking that guy.  I was beating myself up over it […]
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Two Down

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with me.  Really I don’t.  I’m just having a bad dating week. Tuesday night was a first date with a man that I should have liked.  He was drop dead gorgeous.  So good looking that if he wasn’t that bright he could probably coast on his looks(not with me, […]
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Ours Is Not To Reason Why

I think I have a pretty healthy attitude about online dating.  I try not to take it too seriously.  Try not to spend much time wondering why certain men write and others don’t.  As I wrote long ago, in Online Dating Survival – Lesson #1, I really don’t think that stuff has much to do […]
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Optimism and Opportunity

I had a really good first date on Friday.  A surprisingly good first date. It was the longest first date I’ve had in years.  We met at 7:30.  I got home past midnight.  We met for a drink (I was having non-alcoholic beverages because I wasn’t feeling well and so taking some pretty strong medicine) […]
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