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But You’re A Cashier – Update

It’s been 3 days and I still haven’t checked out the link (the link to the new guy’s “art”).  I am petrified. He and I have plans for tomorrow night.  I’m sure he’s going to ask me what I thought.  Did I like it?  And I’m going to have to say something.  “I’ve been really […]
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A Tired Morning’s Thoughts On Last Night’s Date

I don’t have a point system for dates.  Really I don’t.  But if I did he would’ve been picking up lots of points in advance of the actual date.  Which I know can be problematic in its own weird way because then I was predisposed to like him. He asked me out with certainty.  No, “gee, maybe […]
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It’s What I Do

So I’m dating again.  Not crazy, 4 dates a week dating but dating. There are a couple of new guys I’d like to go out with and so I’m going out with them.  Of course, I’m super busy right now with projects and personal stuff and blah, blah, blah and so I’m seeing one this […]
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The Break Is Over

It’s Official.  My break from dating is over.  I have a date on Saturday with one of the guys I met on Plenty of Fish.  That was fast, I know.  But he’s good, really good. So far he’s done everything right.  His initial message mentioned something very specific and idiosyncratic in my profile, one of […]
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So, so far, no one has taken me up on th Set Up SINgleGIRL challenge.  I’m not surprised.  I mean, even if you’ve been reading me for a while, it’d be hard for you to know who I might like and what I’m looking for.  I’ve written about dealbreakers and my needs and wants from […]
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