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Sangria Makes It Better

As I mentioned, I had a date with a very dull man last night.  Lucky for me, he picked a great place for us to meet.  Someplace that would never have occured to me, before.  But it was such a good choice that I’ve decided it belongs on my Best Date Spots list. At 70th […]
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You Can’t Go Back

I’ll admit it.  The main reason I went out with the guy I went out with tonight is because he reminded me of my first love.  He looks a bit like him and they’re from the same place and, well, there are other similarities. It took me about 3 minutes to realize that those similarities […]
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Loneliness Bites

Thank you so much to everyone for your thoughtful and supportive comments regarding my “Blog Policy” post, here, on Twitter and via direct messaging.  I appreciate them.  I also appreciate the messages of the WTF? variety.  I know that I included a lot of info in that last post.  It was long, and could have […]
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Back in the Game

So much has happened in the last few days.  But then, nothing has actually happened. The European had dutifully been texting me good morning just about every day since our third date. Plus some additional texts later in the day.  I heard from him Saturday night that he’d actually been home sick for most of […]
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I logged onto during halftime to check on one of the site’s features (kind of for research).  I know I said I was going to reactivate my account, but truth is I never got around to it.  I’ve been so busy lately that I even hid my OKCupid profile.  Just for the time being.  […]
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