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No More Crappy First Dates

People keep asking me about my dating life. It’s been a long time since I’ve written about a recent date, here. There are a few reasons for that. All falling under the theme – nothing worth writing about. I’d thought I’d met someone interesting, way back in the fall, before I got sick. Not much had […]

Not Dead Yet

Last night I found myself at a silly little crossroads. I received a notice that one of my dating-related accounts was up for renewal. Now, as you can imagine, I haven’t logged into any dating accounts in almost 2 months. A fact I feel bad about as I just disappeared on some guys mid-conversation. But… […]

What’s Going On?

But first a musical interlude. So what’s going on? Good question. I’ve been kinda quiet about my dating life lately. I actually have been on a few dates in recent weeks. Perfectly fine dates with perfectly fine guys. One was followed by days of texts. Texts that I was slow to reply to, because I hate […]

Variety is the Spice of Life

I’ve rarely been accused of being shy. But I am a Gemini. So while there’s a part of me that thrives in social situations, there’s another part of me that likes to just stay home and read. And lately, I gotta admit, the quiet side of me has been pretty much in control. I’ve turned […]

Something Was Just OFF About Him

Have you ever felt, within moments of meeting a person, that something was just OFF about that person? That’s how I felt about my date last week. And I’m really bummed about it. This was someone I’d met online weeks ago. But because of the holidays (he was traveling) we didn’t have a chance to meet […]