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Warts and All?

Warning: It’s been a few days/nights since I’ve slept. When I say I haven’t slept, I mean, I haven’t slept. Not, not well. Last night, since I was so sleep deprived, I stopped work at 7pm (really early for me) and went to bed at 10. I tossed and turned and listened to podcasts until about […]

Never Love Someone More Than They Love You… What about the opposite?

So I was talking with a friend, catching up (I know it sounds like all I do is date and socialize, but that’s just because I leave the other parts of my life off the blog. In reality, I haven’t seen much of my friends lately, and I’ve been missing them). Somewhere in our conversation […]

I’m In Love With a Friend… What the Hell?

There are many, many things I can’t wrap my head around. One of which is the whole, “I fell in love with a friend” phenomenon. I just don’t get it. For instance, this post in YourTango (seems like sensible advice, if such a thing were to actually occur). Or the classic sitcom silliness of Monica […]

Too Young?

I like questions. And polls (obviously). So I tend to pay attention to polls on other sites. This week’s poll on Cupid’s Pulse caught my eye. I always thought of myself as a late-bloomer, in this respect (there seemed to be so many couples in love in high school and then even more in college […]

You Filthy Slut

I doubt there’s anyone reading this who hasn’t heard about Mel Gibson’s abusive, racist rants at his ex-girlfriend. The guy’s a real charmer. But hardly one of a kind. Be honest.  How many of us have found ourselves in relationships with men (or women) who we thought, at first, were really decent human beings only […]