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? Seeking…Hey, Where’s My Box

So, by now all of my regular readers know that I’m a big fan of online dating.  For all of its faults, I think it’s a pretty awesome way to meet potential dates. But that’s not what this week’s poll is about. Recently I was checking out a new-ish site (I check them all out, […]
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Learning from Your Parents – a Poll (but first a poem)

This Be The Verse They fuck you up, your mum and dad. They may not mean to, but they do. They fill you with the faults they had And add some extra, just for you. But they were fucked up in their turn By fools in old-style hats and coats, Who half the time were […]
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Let Your Fingers Do the Talking?

This seems to be the week that everyone’s writing about texting and dating. has an article that gives an overview of “High-Tech Dating” on their Happen site (it’s pretty wish-wishy, but it’s  And has a post called To Text or Not To Text:  Dating Rules for a New World which starts with […]

Open or Closed?

Last week I posted my New List of things I was looking for in a man and a relationship.  And, not surprising, the item that got the most attention was #3, “If we are going to embark on a serious LTR then he’s gotta be open to talking about us having an open relationship. I […]
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While We’re On the Topic of Bad Sex

Yesterday, just moments after I posted, I turned my attention to Twitter (what a surprise) and found myself in the middle of a debate.*  Well, maybe debate is too lofty a term.  Someone, I’m not sure who (sorry, I’m just too busy to dig through tweets today, maybe someone can give us the info in […]
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