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I wouldn’t have to work at all, I’d fool around and have a ball…

Sorry, I couldn’t resist. And who doesn’t love Abba? So, yesterday there was this new post/study from YourTango blowing up twitter. It seems that 75% of Women Would Not Marry Someone Who Was Unemployed. Shocking! So not shocking. Also revealed was that 65% of those same women wouldn’t get married if they, themselves, were unemployed. […]

Let Your Freak Flag Fly

Recently, the lovely and talented Taylor Cast wrote a post for The Urban Dater called, You want me to do what!? Sexual Fetishes. In it she details the demise of a promising new-ish relationship when the guy she was seeing shared a very specific and ultra-kinky fetish that was beyond her comfort zone. Which got […]

The Last Time You Had Sex It Was_______????

So yesterday, I reposted an old post (still having issues with writers block). It was one of last year’s Top Ten most popular posts and one I’d thought about recently. And, sure enough, there were some people who felt the need to tell me that my problem is that sex should never be separated from […]

Speaking of The Fade???

So, yesterday, me and the other fab members of the Insomniac club explored the fade. Some of my fellow bloggers defended the fade as a legitimate way to peacefully end a relationship. Others were violently opposed to the practice. So here’s what I want to know – how do you feel about it?  Do you […]

The Young and The Sexless?

Gosh darnit, those crazy kids have gone and surprised us again. The latest survey shows a significant decline in teen sexual activity. Specifically: “The latest round of the quaintly named National Survey of Family Growth found that among 15-to-24-year-olds, 29 percent of females and 27 percent of males reported no sexual contact with another person […]