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So… First off, I think I might turn the comments off for this post. I just don’t think I can deal. My life has taken some seriously strange twists and turns in the last couple of years.  If I were to sit down and have a “catch up” talk with an old friend who I […]
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Bah Humbug

It’s the 23rd of December and for the past few weeks everywhere I’ve gone I’ve been bombarded with holiday cheer.  My mailbox is stuffed with pretty holiday cards and all of my email inboxes have been flooded by people who want me to have a happy holiday. I say Bah Humbug. I’ve always been anti-holiday. […]
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Everyone Deserves Better

The other day my dear friend Singlegal wrote a post that included a description of a date she had, about a year ago: “About a year ago, I was sitting in my car and listening to a guy I was “dating” talk about how he’s never been to the dentist. This guy was overweight, self-centered, […]


A couple of things: I haven’t bothered to delete the nasty comments from the last two posts, even though they clearly cross the line.  I also have no intention to correct the many factual errors made.  Here’s what I will do, point out for the nth time that I can’t imagine how sad, pathetic and […]
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Don’t Shit Where You Eat (?)

Work and dating – I’ve always been of the opinion that they don’t mix, but then, I’ve never really been in  a situation where I wanted to date anyone I worked with.  The few times I’ve had guys I worked with ask me out, I politely turned them down saying that I didn’t date co-workers.  […]
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