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Dating and Blogging

Dating and blogging are a lot alike. Well in (at least) one weird way. I used to date a lot. And I used to blog a lot. Every day. Sometimes more than one post a day. But now that I haven’t been blogging regularly for the past month or so, the stakes seem higher.  I […]

What Are You Afraid Of?

Commitment? Intimacy? Dying alone? Failure? Everyone’s afraid of something. Maybe more than one thing. Probably more than one thing. When you’re single, like me, you have a lot of people randomly accusing you of being afraid of commitment or intimacy. Maybe it’s not so random? And others who ask you, genuinely, if you’re afraid of […]

Diving Back In

Bizarre factoid I read over the weekend -  in any 48-hour period in 2010, more data was created than had been created by all of humanity in the past 30,000 years.   Deep breath. I just took a couple weeks off from blogging. From blogging and from my blog-related social media stuff, for the most part. It […]

Home Sweet Home

I’m sure I’ve said this before, I can be pretty oblivious. So caught up in my thoughts and the slog of life that I don’t see what’s right in front of me. Anyway, I was away for a few days. Not too far away. Just far enough to clear my head and get some perspective. […]

Dumb and Dumber

Fact: I like men. Fact: I don’t have as much patience for dating as I used to. Maybe that’s a good thing. Or a bad thing. Whichever. So as I mentioned, I spent some time this weekend hanging with a girlfriend comparing our Friday night dating disasters. My story was short. Short, silly and pathetic. […]