I’m 39 and single.  I’ve never been married, have no kids and have never really lived with a guy, not for any period time.  On these facts alone one might assume a few things:  I’ve dated a lot.  I’ve had quite a few relationships. And that all of those relationships failed. These would be fair [...]

I caught a lot of flack for the post Are Men Regressing? (Ah hell, I’ve just been catching a lot of flack lately.  I’m not giving advice people, just telling you about MY life.  I’m not suggesting you live by my rules.  What, exactly, is so irksome about that?).  Anyway, after a while I decided [...]

So my phone rang at 7:45 tonight.  It was the guy I thought I had a date with tonight (or last night).  I didn’t answer. The message he left me was kinda funny.  He was upbeat and enthusiastic and said how much he was looking forward to our next date.  And he wanted to know [...]

I’m going to be sitting home tonight.  Or maybe not.  Maybe I’ll head out and do something with a friend.  What I won’t be is out on a date. Even though I thought I had one for tonight.  Or maybe it was last night? Late last week I received a text from the guy I [...]

My regular readers know that sometimes people will give me ideas for things to write about.  I keep those ideas in a “good idea file” and get to them when I can. One of these was to write a rebuttal to a very silly article in AskMen.com (are there articles in AskMen that aren’t very [...]