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Bad Day

I think it’s safe to say that I was kind of out of mind when I posted last night.  I hadn’t slept the night before and had been acting somewhat irrationally all day.* I didn’t think about the consequences of my actions.  I was just exhausted and wanted to do something, anything, to make the […]
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Just In Case

I feel like I have to remind you guys, every once in a while, that I’m a real person.  Just in case you forget. I spent most of this morning crying.  Over stuff that I’ve been keeping to myself.  Well, only sharing with my closest friends because I didn’t want someone who might read this […]
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On Second Thought

I know I promised I’d write something about What We Learned When We Infiltrated a “Pickup Artist” Seminar (if you haven’t read it yet, you should) that appeared in Lemondrop last week.  But, on second thought, I’ve decided not to. I’m probably one of the least appropriate people to comment on it.  First of all, […]
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Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell – My NUMBER

Oh boy.  Where to start? OK, let’s start here – Only an idiot would ask a question that he didn’t really want to know the answer to.  And yet… Last week Tom Miller  wrote an amusing column on Sexual History and why a woman’s specific number doesn’t count. I’m not going to parse it here. […]

5 Biggest Dating/Relationship Mistakes I’ve Ever Made

I’m 39 and single.  I’ve never been married, have no kids and have never really lived with a guy, not for any period time.  On these facts alone one might assume a few things:  I’ve dated a lot.  I’ve had quite a few relationships. And that all of those relationships failed. These would be fair […]