Today is the day. Sometime in the next 24 hours I’m going to be moving from here, my home at OnSugar, to my new self-hosted home. The url will remain the same and my networked blog thingy on facebook won’t change either. But, I’ve been told that my rss feed might get messed up and [...]

First an apology.  I took an unexpected sick day yesterday.  I’ll catch up on everything soon. So the other day I set out to do some man shopping for me and Lucky Girl.  I must have been distracted though, because I didn’t set the match search terms correctly. In fact, I must have been really [...]

Recently Kelli Lawless did a great post on her blog around the idea that certain women were considered intimidating men (and why that might be). I commented with my 2 cents and have been interested to see how the comment stream evolved. One of the reasons I found this post particularly compelling was its timing. [...]

So early last week it looked like this week was going to be busy with dates.  My online dating inbox was full of messages from new guys and a handful of them seemed like they had potential.  I was looking forward to it, actually. And then, I started to really look at them.  And to [...]

I’m afraid of a lot of things. Heights.  I love the view from a friend’s rooftop.  Sometimes in the summer we’ll go up to his roof at night and eat italian ices and look out over at the city lights.  No matter what we end up talking about those conversations are always special.  I just [...]