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It’s Only Dating…

OK first. This blog is seriously pissing me off. I had a poll written for today. But I can’t make it look or be the way I want. I guess that’s going to be the next big thing on my “to do” list (it’s a long fuckin list). Sorry, this move is just so stressful. [...]

Sex OR Dating in the City

I’ve been pretty dull lately.  All work and stress and blog blah blah blah.  I know.  It’s pathetic. So I’m gonna take a big deep breath and try to block everything out, all of the stress and my phone bzzing every 2 minutes and the twelve things I was supposed to do today and didn’t [...]

I’ve Become THAT Person

So one day last week I received a message in my online dating message box that addressed me by name.  It confused me because it wasn’t a reply and I couldn’t find any other messages from the man in question.  And while my pictures are very recent and do, indeed, look like me (they are [...]

My First Post From My New Home

Hello and welcome to my new home.  It’s still a work in progress.  Several of the pages are empty and there are literally hundreds of dead links.  UGH.  But give me a few days and I promise to get things in tip top shape. I do actually have some dating news for you. Some of [...]

Some People Know How to Listen

So the other day I received an email from Lucky Girl. She’d been man-shopping for me again, and included the links to profiles for 4 different guys that she thought I might like. I didn’t have to click the links for 3 of them. I recognized the profile names. One was a guy I actually dated [...]