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Ping Ping Ping (Enough Already)

All morning long that’s all I’ve been hearing: ping, ping, ping.  It’s the sound my iphone makes every time I get a new message and it’s driving me crazy. What’s caused this flood of new emails, you ask?  Well, last night I refreshed my accounts with Match and Chemistry. As I mentioned, Match.com is giving […]

Ordering Off the Man Menu

It occurred to me the other day that if I could order up my “perfect man”, my dream guy, I’d have absolutely no idea where to start. Sure, I need him to be kind and smart and funny and ethical.  And we need to be able to have FUN together (of both the sexual and […]

Little Fish, Big Pond and Still…

I’ve always thought of myself as a little fish in a big pond and happily so. Add that to the reasons I love New York, I guess. I can be and do whatever I want and know that, no matter what, I just fade into the crowd here. I’m barely a blip on the radar. […]

“…I’m fully capable of changing a light bulb all by myself.”

I took some time off this weekend to just relax and chill out.  One of the things I did with my “chill-out” time was catch up on some light reading (it’d been weeks since I actually had time to read through all of my favorite sections of the Sunday NYTimes). Sometime around midday I came […]

My Naughty Valentine Party

Wait, wait, wait.  Don’t go jumping to any conclusions.  I’m not having a party.  My Naughty Valentine is the name of the party I went to the other night (well, the party was called Chemistry, the theme for that night was My Naughty Valentine). Before I tell you about the party, lemme give you the back […]