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Little Fish, Big Pond and Still…

I’ve always thought of myself as a little fish in a big pond and happily so. Add that to the reasons I love New York, I guess. I can be and do whatever I want and know that, no matter what, I just fade into the crowd here. I’m barely a blip on the radar. [...]

“…I’m fully capable of changing a light bulb all by myself.”

I took some time off this weekend to just relax and chill out.  One of the things I did with my “chill-out” time was catch up on some light reading (it’d been weeks since I actually had time to read through all of my favorite sections of the Sunday NYTimes). Sometime around midday I came [...]

My Naughty Valentine Party

Wait, wait, wait.  Don’t go jumping to any conclusions.  I’m not having a party.  My Naughty Valentine is the name of the party I went to the other night (well, the party was called Chemistry, the theme for that night was My Naughty Valentine). Before I tell you about the party, lemme give you the back [...]

Catching My Breath

I went to bed early last night and stayed in bed until 10:30 this morning (early, for me, is midnight in case you were wondering). This is pretty damn noteworthy. I haven’t been sleeping much lately and that’s been an issue. I’ve been kinda grouchy and sad. I haven’t been sleeping because I’ve been stressed [...]

The Power of Language

I’ve been unusually mum about the whole Marry Him drama.  There’s one main reason for this.  I haven’t read the damn book, yet. I’ve been insanely busy lately and truthfully, if I were going to make time to read (which sadly I haven’t had time to do in weeks) I would read something for pleasure. [...]