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Nothing Risque, Nothing Gained

I’ve been a big fan of the site Toy With Me for a while now, so I jumped at the chance to do a site review* for them. Like the name suggests, they do sex toy reviews on high end sex toys (like the LELO NEA). I like the reviews and as someone who’s shelled out [...]

A Friend of My Friend…

I can’t speak for anyone else, but for me, one of the big moments in any relationship is when I meet a guy’s friends. And perhaps, even more so, when I arrange for him to meet my friends. It means a lot to me, what my closest friends think of the men in my life. [...]

Singles

I was brave this weekend.  I walked into a party, by myself, knowing that I probably wouldn’t know a single person there. I was invited by someone I’d been trying to connect with for ages (she was the host). But other than her, someone I’d never actually met, I had no idea who might be [...]

My “Valentine’s Day Is OVER” Giveaway

Valentine’s Day is over and I couldn’t be happier.  Taking my happiness up a notch is the fact that I’ve teamed with one of my favorite websites, Cozy Wallet, to do a special Valentine’s Day is Over giveaway.  I don’t know about you, but after days/weeks of nothing but posts about Valentine’s Day, I’m celebrating [...]

Rain Check?

“Does a rain check mean ‘yes, but later’ or ‘no’. Got one today and having a hell of a time figuring it out.” I received this question in a DM (private message on twitter) the other day and immediately knew I’d have to write a post about it. I didn’t realize, at the time, that [...]