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Not According to Plan

I’ve been off-line for most of the last few days.  Health stuff, sorta. Anyways, I also had to miss 2 friend’s parties (which I was very sad about) and cancel my 2nd date with Mr. Midwest (our 3rd date went well and he asked me out again as we kissed outside my building at the […]

When I Started to Feel ?

That title originally read, “When I Started to Feel Sexy” but I didn’t want to give people the wrong idea. This is just a short post about me and getting older. And being cool, better than cool, with getting older. Yesterday, I retweeted an article from YourTango about why women should look forward to getting […]

Cougars, Types and Cupid’s Arrow (random quick thoughts)

First, I’m typing as fast as I can.  Trying to squeeze this in while my lunch is cooking.  So, forgive me if it lacks eloquence or even sense. I was thinking about a post I read on Mike the MasterDater’s site earlier today, Cougar, cutting her claws on the back of change. It’s a well […]

Love at First Sight

One of the new features of my site is the little teaser poll (over in the right corner, in the pretty rose box).  I’m going to be switching them out every week or so. The first question I posed was, “Do you believe in love at first sight?  Because of some, um, technical difficulties it […]

Cheating Hearts & Other Parts

So the folks over at Marie Claire got me thinking.  They did this He Said/She Said column about cheating and, according to them, men are more upset by a partner’s sexual infidelity while women are more upset by emotional infidelity.  Or something like that? So a guy would be more pissed off if his girlfriend […]