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Child-Free

Child-free. It’s one of those words that I just don’t feel comfortable using. Kinda like sex positive. It just doesn’t work for me. So even when it’s the most appropriate word for what I’m thinking, I probably won’t use it. Because, it’s just tangled up/weighted down with so much other stuff. Anyway, I’ve been intrigued […]

This is Not the Most Interesting Thing About Me

It was a few weeks ago. I was at a work-ish event. I was going to be there all day, and so I scoped out a good seat (at a table) and planted myself there. I didn’t want to spend the day wandering aimlessly, talking non-stop. Networking. Yes, I probably should have spent the day […]

Older and Wiser

So the other day I posted this video by Garfunkel and Oates to my facebook page. People seemed to like it. Some of you might have missed it. Either because facebook is actually not a great way to share info (duh) or because we’re not facebook friends. What? How can that be? Seriously, I hate […]

The Toe of the Elephant

Getting it together. Little by little. I promise. And look, I have a treat for you today. A guest post by the always fabulous Hilarity in Shoes. *** The Toe of the Elephant A story that isn’t about me, but could be. Nancy wasn’t too big on Thai food.  Didn’t hate it, didn’t love it. […]

So About Sex

I’m not having any. Sex. In fact, this is probably the longest I’ve gone in… well, I don’t know. Over a decade at least. I think. Maybe more. It hurts my brain (and other parts of me) to thing about it. Especially when I ponder the why. It’s complicated. Not that complicated. Just layers of […]