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Older and Wiser

So the other day I posted this video by Garfunkel and Oates to my facebook page. People seemed to like it. Some of you might have missed it. Either because facebook is actually not a great way to share info (duh) or because we’re not facebook friends. What? How can that be? Seriously, I hate [...]

The Toe of the Elephant

Getting it together. Little by little. I promise. And look, I have a treat for you today. A guest post by the always fabulous Hilarity in Shoes. *** The Toe of the Elephant A story that isn’t about me, but could be. Nancy wasn’t too big on Thai food.  Didn’t hate it, didn’t love it. [...]

So About Sex

I’m not having any. Sex. In fact, this is probably the longest I’ve gone in… well, I don’t know. Over a decade at least. I think. Maybe more. It hurts my brain (and other parts of me) to thing about it. Especially when I ponder the why. It’s complicated. Not that complicated. Just layers of [...]

You Are Not Alone (and other nice things people say)

So… I kinda disappeared again. I’ve been trying so hard to figure out what to do with this blog. I don’t want to kill it. Not really. But the life I have now, and will have for the foreseeable future won’t really be a life I want to blog much about. No sex or dating [...]

What You Don’t Know Can Kill You (and your relationships)

Hey kids, remember me? I’ve been around-ish. Some days I have big bursts of energy and get all excited about re-entering this world. Then I update facebook, reply to a tweet or 2 and before I know it my energy fizzles. Anyway… I kinda have something I want to blog about today. I’ll try to [...]