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Quick Dating Update

So I have a date tonight. I haven’t been writing about my dating adventures lately. Not because I’m NOT dating (although I’m not dating MUCH, comparatively speaking). But because I’m just bored with it all. Not the dating. But the same old story. Girl meets boy. Most likely online. They go out on a date. [...]

Vaginas Got Its Issues

The title of today’s post is a quote from comedian Carol Leifer, said during the WTF podcast (one of my faves, yes I have lots of favorite podcasts). She’s a hysterically funny and accomplished woman. And, like many women of her generation, she started out having relationships with men (including a marriage) and then ‘switched teams.’ [...]

A Little Foreplay Goes a Long Way

As hard as I try, I usually have a bachelor’s fridge. Virtually empty but for leftovers, condiments and wine. I just can’t get the hang of the whole shopping and cooking for one thing. And maybe I never will. But like I said, I always have wine. I’m not a huge drinker nowadays, but I like [...]

Sex or Laughter?

Hooray, I finally got my shit together to post a Guy’s Story. Seriously, I’ve had this one for a while, but didn’t want it to get lost in the shuffle of Labor Day weekend or 9/11 stuff.  This post comes to us from the awesome Christian Polanco.  Christian is a comedian and podcaster who does a cool podcast where [...]

ATTN Women: Don’t Date This Man

Yeah, I’ve sucked at blogging lately. But that’s not what today’s post is about. And I apologize up front if I’ve already told bits and pieces of this story awhile ago. I honestly can’t recall. So I was reading (skimming) this story in Jezebel about the lawyer suing the site liarscheatersrus.com. I have very mixed feelings about [...]