So, a year or so ago (maybe longer, I can’t keep track) I went out with a man who lied on his online profile. Shocking, I know! He misrepresented his age by several years, and didn’t fool me one bit. I knew he was lying from the get go. He just looked older than he [...]

So remember when I gushed about the dating site HowAboutWe.com and told you about my upcoming date? It was quick, easy, painless and I was totally looking forward to it! Well, the best laid plans… I’d met this guy on HowAboutWe and we quickly hit it off (he liked my date suggestion, I liked his, [...]

Have you ever been having a perfectly pleasant conversation, and then all of a sudden someone says something that makes you realize OMG you really are an asshole? I have this vague memory. I was hanging out with a boyfriend. I was already starting to realize that he might in fact be a bad person. [...]

Attraction is a funny thing. Well, funny might be the wrong word here. But I’m trying to curse less. I’m just constantly amused and amazed by human attraction. It’s WEIRD. Really fucking weird. OK, so much for cursing less. So here’s a little story about attraction (sloppy segue, sorry, I’m tired). I was out one [...]

I’m been thinking about this post for days. Trying to figure out how to frame it… Seems like everywhere I look there are posts about how BAD dating is. Not just online dating, but dating in general. I know some people who claim to have given up on it all together. I’ve certainly gone through [...]