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Home Sweet Home

I’m sure I’ve said this before, I can be pretty oblivious. So caught up in my thoughts and the slog of life that I don’t see what’s right in front of me. Anyway, I was away for a few days. Not too far away. Just far enough to clear my head and get some perspective. […]

Sharing is Caring – The Insomnia Club Strikes Again

The insomnia club posted again, earlier this week. I wrote something. But it was pretty much the crankiest, most foul tempered thing I’ve written in ages. For some (smart) reason I decided to sit on it and not hit publish. When I woke up the next morning I thought HOLY SHIT, I really don’t want […]

Liars Lie

So, a year or so ago (maybe longer, I can’t keep track) I went out with a man who lied on his online profile. Shocking, I know! He misrepresented his age by several years, and didn’t fool me one bit. I knew he was lying from the get go. He just looked older than he […]

How About We Have Some Fun (Part Deux)

So remember when I gushed about the dating site HowAboutWe.com and told you about my upcoming date? It was quick, easy, painless and I was totally looking forward to it! Well, the best laid plans… I’d met this guy on HowAboutWe and we quickly hit it off (he liked my date suggestion, I liked his, […]

No One’s Looking

Have you ever been having a perfectly pleasant conversation, and then all of a sudden someone says something that makes you realize OMG you really are an asshole? I have this vague memory. I was hanging out with a boyfriend. I was already starting to realize that he might in fact be a bad person. […]