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How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 7

It was winter. That I’m certain of. And I’d just gotten a promotion at work which meant even longer hours and more stress. I half considered giving up my search for a fuckbuddy and just giving in to a life of celibacy, at least in the short-run, but I’d figured I’d try for a little […]

We Interrupt This Story for a Short Story

I had lunch today with an old friend. One of the nicest (nice in this context does not in any way equal bland) guys I’ve ever met. It’s been months since we’ve seen each other and I guess that’s my fault. We’ve made plans a couple of times and each time something work or health […]
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How To Find A Great F*Buddy (it ain’t easy), Part 3

So I knew I wanted to find a fuckbuddy. But I didn’t know where I should look. I’d seen plenty of ads for Adult Friend Finder (no link, because it’s NSFW) and so I figured I’d give it a try. I lasted about a week. First off, a pretty high percentage of the guys posted […]
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Innocent Bystanders

I know I’ve said this many times before, but I really love Twitter.  Yesterday I had breakfast with one of my newer Twitter friends, PassionMD, who is seriously one of the sweetest men in NYC. We had a great chat about a dozen different things and, of course, one of them was dating and relationships.  […]
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And Then There Were None

A friend of mine got married last weekend.  I’m very happy for her.  Very happy.  I’m saying this without a trace of cynicism or jealousy.  She’s completely in love with the guy and he’s completely in love with her and I think they’ll be very happy together. There is little part of me, though, that […]
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