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Mean, Lonely and Weird…But Free

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Lower Standards

I don’t get out much anymore. I try. I make plans and then, well, half the time I’m unable to keep my plans. So I don’t make many plans… One night last week, I made it out to a party, with a friend. We got there late… not that that matters to this story. We [...]
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One Reason

So I was writing something this morning. In my kind-of journal. And I found myself writing, “…the reason…” as if I could KNOW the reason why anyone has ever done anything.  Including myself. There’s never just one reason. It’s never that simple. So there’s that.     No tags for this post.
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The Longer I Wait…

First, some housekeeping. Yes, it’s been a longass time. I make no claims about the near or distant future. I may get back into blogging. Or I may not. Either way, it would be wrong to say I’m turning over a new leaf or re-committing to this. One day at a time. Oh, and I’m [...]
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The Middle Ages

I am 42. Forty fucking two.  Sometimes I have to check myself, do the math. I was born in 1970 and it’s 2012 2013… so I must be 42. As unreal as that seems. I’ve been having MAJOR issues lately, re my age and aging.  Each trip to the bathroom is stressful, as I’m forced [...]