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First Kisses (and other fun stuff)

So, dinner  the other night with friends and I don’t even know how we got on this topic…  but somehow we got to talking about how long we tended to (past tense) wait to kiss some new person. And then, of course, how long we waited to get naked with a new person. Note how […]
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As Good a Time as Any

You know that feeling when you’re having sex with someone for the first time in a long time?  That weirdness? Or maybe that’s just me. Anyway, for me there’s a weirdness. And, more than that, a non-stop inescapable stream of thoughts. Thinking. Thinking at moments I’d rather not be thinking. Analyzing things that shouldn’t be […]
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Mean, Lonely and Weird…But Free

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Lower Standards

I don’t get out much anymore. I try. I make plans and then, well, half the time I’m unable to keep my plans. So I don’t make many plans… One night last week, I made it out to a party, with a friend. We got there late… not that that matters to this story. We […]
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One Reason

So I was writing something this morning. In my kind-of journal. And I found myself writing, “…the reason…” as if I could KNOW the reason why anyone has ever done anything.  Including myself. There’s never just one reason. It’s never that simple. So there’s that.     No tags for this post.
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