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Perspective. Yeah That.

Perspective. Yeah That. i am not a role model just a story  Had to share, even if it makes me queasy.

I had a medical appointment with a new doctor. A second opinion I should have had long ago. Why didn’t I have it sooner? 1) I thought I was getting pretty good care 2) I did actually make this appointment MANY months ago. Getting in to see a top specialist in as a new patient can be a long wait.

Anyway, I went in there with low expectations. I figured I’d probably hear that things were as I thought they were/nothing more could be done. Or maybe I’d hear differently. I was open to whatever.

The details don’t matter. But here’s the end point – I left the office in such a good mood that I was practically skipping. After a doctors appt.  Since then I’ve been full of energy, optimistic, practically giddy.

And why? Because someone said, “I see things differently. Let me explain.” And now I see things differently and have more hope than I’ve had in…

That’s all it took. Maybe other people have tried to do that, and I wasn’t ready to hear. I can be pretty hard-headed like that. But now I have a whole new on my and life. And am so much happier for it.

Maybe that’s why I write this stupid blog. Still. To share my perspective. Fucked up as it usually is.

We all need help seeing things differently. Sometimes.


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  1. Lisa says:

    Yay! So glad you got a new perspective. It is so important. My partner and I have had a lot of exposure to doctors and the medical establishment lately, and it makes all the difference to see professionals who care, listen, and are open-minded. Best of luck!
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  2. dildo says:

    that is so great im happy for you. I dont like going to the doctors but we have too. Iv been a few times and they find nothing wrong with me but my body is saying something diffrent. All it shows me that man is limited but God truly has your back if you belive. Or whatever you belive in