I’ve got 3 scenarios for you:
You’re in a public place – bar, restaurant, party… and you make eye contact with an attractive person. S/he comes up to you and says hello. No cheesy lines. Just hello. Do you have an actual conversation or just flirt? And is there a difference?
You meet someone online and they ask for your number (or offer theirs). They call you. Do you talk or flirt? Again, is there a difference?
Lastly, you exchange numbers with someone you meet at a party (or something) and they text you. Do you attempt a conversation or do you flirt?
THIS is what’s been on my mind lately. I happen to think the 3 situations are actually pretty different. But that’s for another post. Or whatever. I’m really more interested in what you all think.