As I’m sure I’ve mentioned before, I lurve the site VSB. They crack me the hell up. Today they did a post on Instantly Breakupable Offenses, which reminded me of a conversation I had recently, where I was basically accused of being a pushover because I said I wouldn’t automatically break-up with a guy who cheated on me (more on that chat another time, as it was recorded as a podcast).
So, naturally, I started to think about what would be an instantly breakupable offense, for me. The VSB list doesn’t really fit (my mom’s dead and I might have applauded a guy who had the balls to curse BACK at her when she was alive).
So, my list… not cheating. I think relationships can get past that. Not lying. It’ll piss me off to no end, but I’ve been known to get past that, too.
The only thing that comes to mind, honestly, is being intentionally mean to me. In other words, behaving in a way (whatever that might be) that I’ve already said is hurtful. That I’ve already said causes me pain. And doing it anyway. Knowing it will cause me additional pain. And hurt.
Yep, that’s all I got. Other than violence, which is just a GIVEN.
So clearly I’ve got a lack of imagination, here. What about you? What are your instantly breakupable offenses?
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