Or maybe not.
I was actually looking for a fun, flirty (ridiculously hilarious) ecard to send to someone when this one caught my eye.
Honestly, I can’t think of anything less sexy than having a frank discussion about sex with someone I don’t frequently see naked. Someone with whom I’m in an honest and trusting relationship, sure. I’m all for having a frank discussion of how we might have more/better fun. But as a prelude, with someone I haven’t yet been intimate with? No way, no how.
Maybe I’m wrong, but I think I might be in the minority here. There’s certainly no shortage of people on online dating sites who want to chat about these things with total strangers… Am I wrong?
Anyway, this is one of those posts that started as a poll but then I lost my train of thought. I blame it on the insane amount of crap I’ve eaten in the past few days. Rotting my brain.
I would like to know your thoughts on this – frank sex chat with your partner: yeah or nay? Early on in your relationship or wait until you know each other better? Or maybe you just lay it all out there before the first date?
Tags: first date, NSA, Online dating, sex