Dear Universe, Please Let the Bedroom Walls Be Thick
So last night I was lying in bed, exhausted from packing all day, when I heard my next door neighbor sneeze. And then it hit me, OMG please let my new apartment have thick walls.
Please, oh please, oh please.
As I’ve written about before, one of the issues with my current apartment is that is has thin walls. And an utterly ridiculous next door neighbor who actually thinks it’s acceptable to bang on the wall, in complaint, if I’m having loud sex.
Which leads me to today’s poll. It’s a re-poll (because I’m too damn busy working and packing to think of something new).
A while ago, YourTango published a list of the World’s 10 Best and Worst Lovers. I wasn’t surprised (much) by the results. Scotland (I lived in Scotland for a while, a long time ago) came in at number 8 on the worst list. I’d actually expect them to place lower. The reason given for their ranking was “too noisy” (I can think of other reasons they should be on the list).
So is too noisy a bad thing in a lover? Do you not want to be with someone who makes a lot of noise during sex(see, I told you there was a question here)?
Today’s poll question:
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Really it all depends on the sex. You don’t want a screamer when you’re being soft and intimate, but with rough and primal anything but a screamer just seems…off. Over all, some noise is better than a silent as the grave lover in my book.
I agree with Psycosis. It depends on the situation completely
Very interesting…
I think it depends on the noise but lets face it even if it’s primal and rough… if their really loud it can turn into a distraction.
If the noises are real, there is no too loud (unless location dictates discretion).
I like hearing my fiancé moan or say, “Fuck, that feels so good!” It tells me he loves the sex. He doesn’t have to scream or anything like that, though. He, on the other hand, likes it when I make a lot of noise. I’ve noticed that most men do. Is this true?
I put other because I’m too busy making noise myself to notice. I hate having to use my energy to be quiet. If I’m quiet without an effort, I’m not that into it.
My hubby is super quiet and i’m super loud… I can say that I would like it if he “spoke up a bit” in bed lol.
I think it all depends on the situation and on the kinds of noises. Moaning, screaming, or dirty talk can all be sexy in the right situation… but someone who is wailing like a siren would probably kill the moment for me