Real stories about dating and relationships in New York City. Truth is more interesting than fiction.

Archive for July, 2010

You Filthy Slut

I doubt there’s anyone reading this who hasn’t heard about Mel Gibson’s abusive, racist rants at his ex-girlfriend. The guy’s a real charmer. But hardly one of a kind. Be honest.  How many of us have found ourselves in relationships with men (or women) who we thought, at first, were really decent human beings only […]

When Independence Sucks

The last couple of weeks have been hard for me.  Physically.  I haven’t been feeling well and when that happens, well everything else falls apart. My apartment looks like a bomb hit it.  And my life feels completely upside down. So many things that I should have done, need to do, want to do. But […]

I’d Rather Be Safe

There’s this guy I’ve been meaning to meet for a couple of weeks. I would have gotten together with him last weekend, but I wasn’t feeling well. Anyway, we’re trying to set plans for next week.  And he keeps suggesting that we take a ride out to the beach. And since NYC is in the […]

Misplaced Love

I know, I know. It’s been almost a week since I’ve responded to comments. I’m reading them. I’m not ignoring you. I just haven’t had the extra energy to reply. I’m sorry. I’m sorry. I’ve been saying that a lot lately. Anyway, I do have a little story for today.  One that I think most […]

You Don’t Look a Day Over…

It would be wrong of me to not mention the fact that I’ve been on a little unscheduled hiatus.  I’ve been here, in my apt.  Just not feeling very well. Now, let’s get back to things… Not too long ago, I arrived late to a party to find a friend of mine trapped in an […]