I had my 4th date with Mr. Midwest last night. It was nice. Good. Easy. Fun.
Sorry, not feeling particularly articulate on the subject. The truth is, I have absolutely no idea what to say. We have fun together. We enjoy each other’s company (well, I enjoy his company and he seems to enjoy my company).
We get along well.
Last night, we even had a little disagreement (not about anything important) and afterwards he said, “we can agree to disagree” and I thought, Damn, I really am dating a grown up. What a nice change. It was…nice.
So maybe this can turn into a not so empty relationship, after all? Or not. I don’t really know.
Here’s what I know: Last night, after dinner, I invited him up to my place, “for a little while”. At which point he said something, jokingly, about my not wanting him around all night long. And I said that that was right, that I’d be throwing him out/he couldn’t spend the night because he wakes up at an ungodly hour (which is true, he’s at work at 7am each morning). And yes we had sex, and yes it was good and he started to fall asleep and I woke him up and told him he had to go. At which point he tried to tempt me into letting him stay with promises of morning sex. I told him that sounded great, but I needed to sleep later than 6 am this morning so he had to leave. Anyway, the point here is that if he didn’t have to wake up so early I think I would have wanted him to stay (and not just because of the morning sex).
Normally, I don’t like to spend the night with someone unless I think there’s a chance of a real relationship forming.
So maybe those butterflies aren’t so important? I guess I’ll just have to wait and see.
Tags: date, Relationships, sex