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So I Asked Her to Join My Harem…(Part 1)

It’s a beautiful Sunday in NYC.  Time to get out and spend some time in the park.  But first, another Guy’s Story. Every Sunday I have posts from male guest authors. This week’s Guy’s Story is by Steve Phillips WeLoveDates.com. For more of Steve’s writing check out the WeLoveDates blog.

So I Asked Her to Join My Harem…

Part 1

She was a gorgeous looking woman and there was instant chemistry between us. I asked her phone number and didn’t waste two seconds about calling her the moment I got home. It was two in the morning, but what the hell!

She didn’t seem unhappy to be receiving my call either. We spoke for a solid two hours. Things looked good. They got better when I spoke to her about a big event that was two Saturdays down the road. I had to word it carefully, though. There were another two ladies on the scene, and I had told both of them about it as well. Essentially, I wanted to keep my options open.

I saw her a couple of times at a dancing venue I went to regularly, and soon we were kissing, but I didn’t go much further than that. I had my reasons. The phone calls remained a few hours long late at night and when she asked about that special event, I kept saying ‘I’ll let you know.” Eventually, I told her that I couldn’t commit yet as I might have some business to attend to that weekend.

Things hit a big time downhill patch, though, a few days later, when I received an email written all about me. It wasn’t complimentary either. It occurred to me that she had meant to send it to someone else, but had sent it to me instead. I wasn’t happy to learn what she really thought of me. Appears that she suspected that there was another woman, and that the real reason I wasn’t being definite about the invitation was that I was hedging my bets.

Yes, she did call me a playboy.

to be continued…


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  1. Dazediva says:

    Oooh this gets interesting .. can’t wait to read part 2 ..

  2. Hahaha. Sorry for laughing but it’s one thing to behave a certain way but another to have it turned on you!

  3. LV says:

    Can’t wait to hear more! So … Steve wasn’t happy about hearing that she was totally onto him? Guys — we’re not stupid! We know when you’re stringing us along.

    Hm, I wonder if it was really an “accident” that she sent it to him…? Simone, don’t make us wait another week to hear part 2!

  4. D says:

    These lists are pretty inspiring to me because they’re pretty much bullseye for all the stuff I’ve been working on about myself, including the stubble. And yes, the age. I can’t believe it’s taken me this long to figure it out, but whatever. It’s nice to catch girls checking me out…

  5. whoa… I did that one time. Completely embarrassed. Told my friends all about an issue I was having with this guy about lying, not trysting him and just ready to leave.
    Luckily… I had already had the conversation with him, so he wasn’t surprised… but he was definitely disappointed that I was filling in my friends on so many details.



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