He didn’t call back.  I didn’t call him.  I stayed off the dating site yesterday, all day (which meant ignoring other messages), because I didn’t want him to see that I’d logged on but didn’t send him a message. I wanted to talk about what happened with a friend because, honestly, I really was confused [...]

I had a date on Saturday night.  A first date.  It was, in so many ways, the best first date I’ve had in years. It was also the worst date (first or otherwise) I’ve had in years. And now I’m utterly confused and miserable. Because it was just so nice to spend time with a man [...]